The Sexual Offences Act 2003 replaced this aspect with the offence of "Sexual activity in a public lavatory" which includes solo masturbation. The Sexual Offences Act 1967 permitted sex between consenting men over 21 years of age when conducted in private, but the act specifically excluded public lavatories from being "private". Importuning was an offer of sexual gratification between men, often for money. Buggery was a capital offence between 15 under UK law, although it rarely resulted in a death sentence. Anal penetration was a separate and much more serious crime that came under the definition of buggery. Historically in the United Kingdom, public gay sex often resulted in a charge and conviction of gross indecency, an offence only pertaining to sexual acts committed by males and particularly applied to homosexual activity. It is likely that the element of risk involved in cottaging makes it an attractive activity to some. Sexual acts in public lavatories are outlawed by many jurisdictions. The study, which was met with praise on one side due to its innovation and criticism on the other due to having outed "straight" men and risked their privacy, brought to light the multidimensionality of public restrooms and the intricacy and complexity of homosexual sex amongst self-identifying straight men. Laud Humphrey's Tearoom Trade, published in 1970, was a sociological analysis and observance between the social space public "restrooms" (as toilets are euphemistically known in the US) offer for anonymous sex and the men-either closeted, gay, or straight-who sought to fulfill sexual desires that their wives, religion, or social lives could not. The term cybercottage is used by some gay and bisexual men who use the role-play and nostalgia of cottaging in a virtual space or as a notice board to arrange real life anonymous sexual encounters. Today, an online community is being established in which men exchange details of locations, discussing aspects such as when it receives the highest traffic, when it is safest and to facilitate sexual encounters by arranging meeting times. The internet brought significant changes to cottaging, which was previously an activity engaged in by men with other men, often in silence with no communication beyond the markings of a cubicle wall.
As such, cottages were among the few places where men too young to get into gay bars could meet others whom they knew to be gay. Cottages as meeting places īefore the gay liberation movement, many, if not most, gay and bisexual men at the time were closeted and there were almost no public gay social groups for those under legal drinking age. Since the 1980s, more individuals in authority have become more aware of the existence of cottages in places under their jurisdiction and have reduced the height of or even removed doors from the cubicles of popular cottages, or extended the walls between the cubicles to the floor to prevent foot signalling. In some heavily used cottages, an etiquette develops and one person may function as a lookout to warn if non-cottagers are coming.
Foot signals-tapping a foot, sliding a foot slightly under the divider between stalls, attracting the attention of the occupant of the next stall-are used to signify that one wishes to connect with the person in the next cubicle. Often glory holes are drilled in the walls between cubicles in popular cottages. Ĭottages were and are located in places heavily used by many people such as bus stations, railway stations, airports and university campuses. Among gay men in the United States, lavatories used for this purpose are called tea rooms. This usage is predominantly British, though the term is occasionally used with the same meaning in other parts of the world. The word "cottage", usually meaning a small, cosy, countryside home, is documented as having been in use during the Victorian era to refer to a public toilet and by the 1960s its use in this sense had become an exclusively homosexual slang term. The term has its roots in self-contained English toilet blocks resembling small cottages in their appearance in the English cant language of Polari this became a double entendre by gay men referring to sexual encounters. The appearance of public lavatories, like this one in Pond Square, Camden, London, is the origin of the term cottaging.Ĭottaging is a gay slang term, originating from the United Kingdom, referring to anonymous sex between men in a public lavatory (a "cottage", "tea-room" ), or cruising for sexual partners with the intention of having sex elsewhere.